My two cents....
I've been a member of CC.com for a long time... I've never received a "smackdown." Why not? Because, I stay out of the political discussions in GD, and I search for answers before asking questions in the technical forums. It was quite a while before they even discovered the fact that I'm female.

Don't get me wrong; I can layeth the smack down with the best of them if you rub me the wrong way, but basically, think of CC.com as the internet version of a hardcore biker bar -- you aren't just going to waltz in and say, "hi." You are either going to act like you belong right off, or you will get your butt handed to you.
From my perspective, those who feel that CC.com is about nothing more than overuse of the "f" word and calling everyone an "assclown" is not even looking at the tech on that site. General Discussion is where most of the "attitude" and attacks occur. But then again, you've got just shy of 4000 members, most of whom are all alpha male personalities. Of course it's going to be a bunch of head butting, and if you can't take it, well, so be it. I know a lot of the guys on their personally, and, well, yeah, they will say the exact same things to your face.
In conclusion, if you don't like it, well, you know what's coming next.....

Karen